Monday, February 5, 2018

Sweeping the Floor

Back in the day it irritated me when other bloggers would explain why they hadn't blogged in a while, or warn everyone when they were getting ready to take some time off. It seemed a little self-important or something. The world will keep turning, I thought. Just live your life. 

But I logged into this dusty blog last week and did the math. It's been over two months. After a few of you reached out to see if I'm still alive, I was forced to sit with my feelings on my long hiatus. Here's what I know - I've missed you. I've missed this space where we've gathered for so many years to share life.

I don't have any big explanations, I guess. But I'm still here. Hi.

Cory and I were driving the back street that hugs up behind our neighborhood over the weekend. I know it well now. We moved east over ice-slicked roads and I looked to the right, at the porch with the profusion of silk flowers shoved into a wayward shopping cart. There was a time I would have seen it as trashy. Now, it stops me in my tracks, all wild beauty and artificial color. It's resilience. Hope? Yeah, I think so. I looked left at my friend's house, recently painted a pretty shade of blue.

Two summers ago on a rare evening alone Cory and I had walked the buckled sidewalks and alleys of the adjacent neighborhood at dusk. It's one of our favorite things to do, but we didn't do it once last summer. I'm not sure where last summer went, or what I did. But the next one doesn't seem so far away, and I'm already looking forward to really feeling it this time around.

The last year has been a doozy.

As my work made the shift to writing deadlines once again, I sat most mornings staring at a blinking cursor, trying to figure out how to uncork what I know about life and pour it bubbling onto the page. Writing often felt like roaming from room to room, looking for a window that might creak open enough to draw in a fresh stream of air.

When I truly found myself stuck, when every window was painted shut and every door sealed (and those days were many,) I would shove away my laptop and grab my broom. Always, without exception, I would be stunned by the amount of filth five people and a wide rotation of neighbors could drag into one home.

The piles would collect strategically throughout the kitchen, the dining room, the mudroom. Dirt, grime, clumps of fur from the cat, tiny rubber bands, minuscule Legos that wouldn't be missed, scraps of paper, stray Cheerios, and crumbs from our morning toast. By the time the floor was cleared, I usually remembered the one west window that would open if it was jimmied, just so.

And the air would blow through, like magic.

Sweeping my floors didn't exactly unlock the hidden mysteries of extracting the truth and the pain and the solace of living, laying it cleanly on the page with no effort. It's more that sweeping my floors reminded me of who I am and where I belong. There's real freedom in that. And freedom is its own sort of open window, even when it still has to be propped up with a sawed-off tree limb or a hammer, like the bedroom window of my childhood. Air is air. We'll take it however we can get it.

I'm out from under that deadline, and my floors still need to be swept.
Life right now feels new-to-me, like pulling on a forgotten, favorite flannel. I'm remembering that blogging and floor sweeping are the first cousins of everyday living, as long as I'm willing to believe it.

There have been times I have worried that what I write here needs to be Really Important. Or Really Funny. Or Really Well-Written. I have occasionally made it something it was never meant to be, wandering from room to room with a wet paint brush and sealing off any stray breeze that might whistle through the jamb.

I don't know what you expect when you show up here. I'm sure it's different for everyone, but that's actually fantastic news. Because I'm someone a little different every day, and so are you. Life wears against us differently. Some days I'm funny. Some days I'm sad. Some days I have something important to say.

Most days, I just have a few piles on the floor, a collection of the bits and grit of my ordinary life. It's shockingly messy, I know. But I also know you understand, because your piles are no different. I don't mind if you don't.


Yesterday I stayed home from church with a sick little girl. Our boys came home and we ate left-overs for lunch. We had a kitchen meeting with one young neighbor and I stood there very aware that my life now lends itself to being bare-faced and wild-haired in the presence of those around me, dealing stern words and fierce love because it's real and it's necessary.

In the afternoon we lounged around in our sweatpants. I read a story to Silas about a room with no windows and three locks on the door, about kids who love life so much that they can't hold it in, about the ways we force them into a box without meaning to. He didn't want to read that book. "Too many words!" he said. "The pictures are boring!" The truth is, he'd never tried it. So we talked about poetry and we talked about freedom while the snow fell outside in thick tufts of white.

I stuck my hands in a bowl of ground beef and pork and squished it around, then rolled out a double-batch of these meatballs that cooked into the best pot of spaghetti I've ever eaten. (No fresh parsley, because this is February and I'm not trying to complicate life.)

I sorted hot air balloon puzzle pieces with Silas and Ruby while Cory and Calvin watched the Superbowl. All afternoon Silas had been confused, saying things like, "Are we eating the snacks tonight when we watch the ball drop?"

I made lists. I wiped off counters.

I swept the floors.

When it was nearly midnight I lay in bed with Cory, listening to Dawes and talking about whatever came to mind. The last thing I remember is rolling over and praying, "I'm sorry I haven't been paying enough attention to you, God."

What I meant was, "I'm sorry I haven't been reading my Bible as much lately."

As sure as I sit here with Monday's sun streaming through my smudged window panes, God chuckled. There hasn't been an inch of space between us. He's always been right here, in every sliver of life. He's in every pile. He's the air. All of it counts.

This is longer than I meant it to be. (There was a time I'd have worried about that, too.) But seasons change and there are no rules to blogging anymore, at least not here.

This is my home. My life. The things we shed without even noticing.
Welcome. I'm so happy you came.


  1. Ohhhhhhhhhhhh, how I love this post.


  2. I hope it's OK to say I love you, even though I don't know you. What a welcome you give us with your words and the windows into your life! Thank you. My life has been just endurance lately, what with the flu, every dayness, and a sick husband. But, like you, I am learning that this is where God is. We are still celebrating Emmanuel, God with us!

  3. Just doing the "next right thing".....

  4. Nice to see you here. No worries - live your life and write as you can.

  5. It was so good to read this post from you! Write and share when you can.

    Love, hugs & prayers for you and your family ~ FlowerLady

  6. yesterday, my husband had nearly finished a mountain of paperwork when it was nearing time to go to church (afternoon service is a great thing). when he looked at me and said he needed to shower before we went, a little voice in my head whispered: "i don't need him to be there to speak to him." so i told him he could go tromp in the woods by the lake if he wanted to, and he did. even a few weeks ago, that would've been difficult for me. but i know i hear God when the outcome is freedom for someone else.

  7. Thank you, Jenn Nahrstadt. I just wrote your words in my journal “... I know I hear God when the outcome is freedom for someone else.”
    And thank you, Shannon, for creating a space for freedom to be where we are.

  8. Hi sister, I copy here what I just wrote on FB after what I wrote yesterday. In the end, my dessert waited for me till today after lunch. It was worth it! Yes He is nearer than we would ever imagine. I need that reminder when I feel that I fail Him in so many ways. He surely chuckles too very often. When you can blog (and keep your own way of doing it whatever form it takes), it is a blessing for me. And you know what happens to some women sweeping floors (as some pretty good story teller told us)??? Sometimes they find a lost treasure and invite all their friends to rejoice with them. Keep sweeping and share with us :-). Have a blessed day!

  9. This was the part I loved post in your blog "When I truly found myself stuck, when every window was painted shut and every door sealed, (and those days were many,) I would shove away my laptop and grab my broom. Always, without exception, I would be stunned by the amount of filth five people and a wide rotation of neighbors could drag into one home." And also when you talked about the magic blowing in. What a lovely post. As soon as I saw the title all I wanted to do was read it. There is something so comforting for me right now, in thinking about the simple things such as sweeping floors and opening windows. At this moment, I long for a summer moment in a big farm house, where I can sweep floors and a porch. Don't get me wrong, I love my busy life. But lately, I'm feeling more and more that they simple things I can do with my hands (last night baked biscuits) like baking and sweeping are what keep me grounded, and peaceful. Enjoy your day. Maybe there be some sweeping in there somewhere, and some rest. :)

  10. I'm glad to see you back here. Instagram just isn't quite the same as the wordy outpourings of your heart, which I love.

  11. “There hasn’t been an inch of space between us.” I needed this reminder. Thank you.

  12. I'm so happy to see you back, and will gladly take whatever it is you're serving ;)

  13. I loved this one. Ordinary glory. That's where it's at.

  14. Hello Shanna, Emily Freeman mentioned you in HopeWriters and I'm so glad she did!!! Last weekend. on the spur of the moment, I started a new blog. The other had grown stale as I tried to be a better blogger.
    So your words, "There have been times I have worried that what I write here needs to be Really Important. Or Really Funny. Or Really Well Written." jumped off the page, grabbed my hand and pulled me out onto the dance floor :-)
    Such a pleasure to meet you and thanks for reaffirming that "there are no rules to blogging anymore. . .".

  15. Very nice post really ! I apperciate your blog Thanks for sharing,keep sharing more blogs.


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