Of all the messes we make and we are around here, Sunday mornings are the hottest ones.
It doesn't matter what we do or how we try or how everyone slept the night before, we are immune to getting our act together. We're incapable of forging a new path. We're rushed and cranky and on occasion, there is blood-shed.
We fly out the door for church - the one positioned just a breezy, 2 minute walk from our front door - leaving the house looking like a crime scene and the cat happy to have us gone.
On our best days, we squeeze into the pew somewhere during the first hymn.
On our worst? Nevermind.
So it makes perfect sense that I decided on a lark last Sunday to head to the park after church for a few family snapshots.
And if you don't believe me that it makes perfect sense, let me add the following to my body of evidence: It was 84 degrees out with harsh sunlight. Cory is allergic to all temps above 71. (And harsh sunlight.) We had a carry-in after our service. (I "invented" a pasta salad around midnight the night before with bacon grease as the secret ingredient.) Half of us were suffering through Allergies from The Pit of Hades. We had just gorged ourselves silly on church-lady food. The kids had better things to do (aka: anything else in the world besides wear church clothes past noon and pose for family pictures.)
But even more compelling than those reasons? We all kind of matched. And I was having a decent hair day.
The end. Goodbye.
Don't even think about trying to talk me out of this one, Cory Brandon. Don't you dare. I don't care if you're "dripping in sweat". Call someone who cares, but first, set up that tripod LIKE YOU MEAN IT.
Let me say again, This wasn't planned.
So yes, God was good to me. I can't tell you how badly I've wanted a family pic with all 6 of us and I had almost given up hoping.
In a twist of fate, dude was "dressed up" and even more arrogant about his appearance than usual. It worked in my favor. Selah.
But as pretty as that picture looks, of course it's only part-real, part-pretend. It doesn't begin to show all that we are, and for that fact we thank the God of the heavens.
Real life is everything happening just beyond the frame.
It's fun to capture our best selves now and then, but let's not get too attached with an ideal. Let's not forget that just one slim hour before, we were wearing chocolate frosting on our chin and inconspicuously slinking up to the buffet for thirds.
Here's more of what we caught on Sunday:
Oh, homeboys. For the love. Look alive.
And a sense of adventure.
Also, he's shy and nervous about himself as a person. Afraid of the camera. Insecure.
(Don't tell him I just called him a teenager because technically, he isn't. But in my heart, he shall always be...)
So far, he hasn't taken up smoking.
(I know smoking is not a laughing matter, reader-friends. JUST SAY NO.)
So, duh. We did.
I can't look at it without cracking way up.
Then again, the years have taught us to keep our expectations on the left side of the bell curve, if you know what I mean.
These pictures aren't fancy or airbrushed. There was no "golden hour" sun-flare or quirky props. Calvin is wearing his homemade cuff.
This is just us, and I love us so dang much.
Ruby's dress and Siley's T: Tea Collection
My dress: Vintage (from Vintage Twill at Junk Evolution, South Bend, IN)
Robert: Wal Mart (his fave)
Cory and Calvin: whatever.
Hey, guess what? I'm speaking at one of the main sessions at the annual Passion for Orphans conference (Oct. 3-5, 2014) in Boulder, Colorado.This year's theme is Hope and Healing and I'm honored to have the chance to share with this group of fun, like-minded women about the journey of hope my family has been on through adoption.
"Passion for Orphans exists to serve women involved in adoption, fostering, and world wide orphan care in an authentic and Christ-centered manner." - from their siteThey have put together a truly top-notch conference that covers a wide variety of relevant adoption/foster-/orphan-care topics.
Want to join us? DO IT! It's open to anyone who wants to attend and I would love to meet you!
You can go here for more info and to register. They also have a facebook page.